What does “Eclipse Into Harmony” mean to me?

When naming my practice and approach to deathwork, I wanted to capture the breadth of what I’d come to understand. My experience being a student to death had transformed me entirely and continues to do so. I now spend a lot of time outside, staring up into the night sky and studying the signs of seasons changing. Somewhere along the way, I became enamored with eclipses. For many, an eclipse is considered a powerful celestial event—one associated with disruption, unpredictability, or fated change. To “eclipse” means to change, obscure, or transition.

Throughout our lives, we are forced to face “eclipsing” events. We may find ourselves completely transformed, depleted, or on the other side of a major loss. Planning for or caring for those at the end of life is no exception. Often, it’s the first time we’re forced to face our own mortality—something that can be frightening for the unacquainted. But, I believe the beauty of this precious life is its impermanence. I believe our ability to approach the end with intention can offer peace. Pursuing a personal relationship to death, evocative as it sounds, could be the missing piece you’re looking for, the balance you seek—a beautiful, even if imperfect, harmony.

So, when I considered what could capture these huge themes, I kept coming back to the same symbol. Often seen as cute and playful—the hummingbird is resilient, adaptable, and has tremendous perseverance. Some even believe they are messengers from the divine—ethereal, spiritual guides that draw our awe. And for me, the hummingbird represents a harmony of gentleness and strength. This combination of qualities is something I seek to offer clients and something I believe we can all possess in the face of eclipsing events.